NEW YORK (OCN) — Hey New York men! Do you have problems having sex with women? Well, here are 50 tips for sex to keep you and your partner happy.
1. Tell your lady what turns you on. Most women think it is very easy for males to “stand at attention” easily. If you have erectile dysfunction and need to take medication in advance, she will know and give you a “heads up.” That way, you will be ready when the time is right.
2. Kissing is cool. Don’t be afraid to give passionate kisses to your partner as you will score major points. Also, 6 out of 10 men tend to have sex with their partner after passionate kissing.
3. Stay awake. Falling asleep is a sure fire way of not “getting any” in the future especially if your partner did not have an orgasm. Put on a little music or have some hot cocoa if it cold.
4. Cuddle. Sex makes most women want to talk and bond. Score points by cuddling. Who know, you may get to go a second round of sex after she catches her breath.
5. Lay on the charm and romance. Nice guys don’t finish last. Be nice and know where to find chocolates, roses and jewelry. Women love gifts so invest in these from time to time in moderation so you won’t have to worry about out doing yourself the next time.
6. Fall asleep in each other arms. All women need the feeling of security. She needs to know you will be there for in her time of need. Staying around and falling asleep with her in your arms shows her she’s not a one-night stand. Remember not to fall asleep first.
7. Don’t be selfish. It takes two to tango. Make sure your partner is pleasured just as you would like to be otherwise, she’ll find a pinch hitter to bat the next time she need a homerun.
8. Read women magazine. Some women find magazines like Cosmopolitan very addictive. Read them while you are at the supermarket. This way you can peek at the quizzes which she may ask you while you cuddle.
9. Pay attention. While making love to your partner, pay attention to her and her signals especially if its first time. Missing her signals will doom you for next time.
10. Switch things up. Women like to be in control just like men do. Give her the chance to be in the drivers seat. Who knows, you may be fortunate to see her wilder side.
11. A nightgown isn’t a gift wrapper. She took the time to buy a sexy nightgown and the least you can do is compliment her on it before you rip it off.
12. Take care of your hygiene. If you aren’t taking care of yourself, it shows you don’t respect yourself and her as well. Its harder to cuddle up or perform oral sex if your relationship is at that level.
13. Shave your whiskers. A few women can not bare the feeling of hair on their sensitive skin. Grab a scissors or an electric razor and buzz some or all off.
14. Relationship and sex isn’t the same. Just because the two of you are wild in bed doesn’t mean your relationship will stay a float. Make sure you are seeing eye to eye.
15. Performing kinky sex. If you find out traditional sex isn’t working out for the two of you, you may need to spice things up a bit. Not all women like this so procede with care.
16. Don’t guess. Don’t assume your partner is loving it because she is moaning. Talk while the two of you are intimate so she doesn’t have to fake an orgasm. Some women will pretend to be happy which later hurts the relationship as you keep locked in your so called “perfect sex mode” so talk it up from the git go.
17. Shave those balls. Hair is good on your head but not in ones teeth during oral sex. Less hair also means more airflow so you stay dry and clean.
18. Watch your lingo. Just because she a naughty girl doesn’t mean you have the right to call her that and worse. Watch your tongue before you end up biting it.
19. Serve and protect. You can’t serve your partner if you can’t protect her from getting pregnant or from STD’s. Keep a few condoms on hand for a planned or spontaneous rendezvous and check them carefully before use.
42. Screams and moans. This tells you that you are rocking herr world and will have something to talk about to her close friends.
43. Telling lies. Telling her she’s the best when she’s not will let her think she is pleasing you right. Break it to her gently so your romantic times together does not become a turn off.